Doing everything but accomplishing nothing?
- Carolyn Frost
- 6 days ago
- 3 min read

I used to think I had a time management problem.
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Turns out, I had a clarity problem.
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My calendar was full, my to-do list was endless, and I felt constantly behind. But when I stopped to ask myself what I was actually working toward? Crickets.
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I couldn't answer.
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Not because I wasn't working hard.
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But because somewhere along the way, I'd stopped checking if all that hard work was actually pointed in the right direction.
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I was busy.
I was productive.
I was exhausted.
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But I wasn't clear.
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And without clarity, all the productivity hacks in the world won't save you.
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You'll just get really efficient at doing things that don't matter.
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Here's what changed everything for me:
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Five simple questions that cut through the noise and showed me what actually deserved my time.
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✨ I N S P I R E
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"Lack of direction, not lack of time, is the problem. We all have twenty-four hour days." - Zig Ziglar
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✨ T H R I V E
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You're not too busy.
You're just unclear.
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Here are 5 powerful questions that will reset your priorities in minutes:
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1) The Emergency Filter: If you had a family crisis tomorrow, what would you instantly drop?
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✓ Your Action: Make a list of everything that would immediately become "not important." Notice what's on that list. Ask yourself why you're spending energy on it now.
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2) The 3-Hour Test: If you only had 3 hours this week for yourself, how would you spend them?
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✓ Your Action: Block 3 hours in your calendar this week and do exactly that. Your answer reveals what you're neglecting.
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3)Â The Regret Question: What would you regret not doing if this was your last year?
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✓ Your Action: Write down your answer. Now look at how much time you spent on it last week. The gap between your answer and your reality is where change needs to happen.
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4) The Instant Yes Test: What opportunities make you say "yes" without hesitation?
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✓ Your Action: Notice what lights you up immediately. That instant pull is your compass. Follow it more often.
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5)Â The Future Self Conversation: What would 80-year-old you want current you to prioritize?
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✓ Your Action: Have an honest conversation with Future Analyn. Write it down. Read it when you're about to say yes to something that doesn't align.
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Most people think they need more time.
Really, they need more clarity
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These questions will surprise you with what they reveal.
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The answers you give yourself in quiet moments?
That's your truth trying to break through the noise.
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Have a beautiful week friends,
Carolyn
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✨ R E S O U R C E S
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SMART-Y Goals: Connect your goals to your deeper why for lasting motivation
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Why You Need to Update Your Core Values:Â Learn when and how to realign your priorities
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An Important Mindset Shift: Discover why "there is time for what's important" changes everything
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